There is no point hang around with your friends and going to places where no women go if your goal is to have the opportunity to meet women. You need to go to where they are.
Begin with the end in mind. What type of women are you attracted to and you would like to meet? With this in mind, you will then need to think about the places they would like to go to. Go to those paces at different times of the day to see when they are mostly there.
If you are in a small country town, the population is not going to explode over the next week. Don’t ever let proximity and convenience be the sole contributor of finding your perfect partner. I’m not saying that there may not be that perfect partner in your home town, but the big cities give you far more choice. Decide and make the move if this is what is holding you back, the lack of choice.
While you are looking, try online chatting. It’s a great way to give you practice of conversation topics with real live women throughout the day. The more you practice, the more confident you will have.
And who knows, perhaps you may even meet someone magical online. I know of several couples who had accidentally met online and are now either happily dating or even married.
Most dance classes are also a great way to meet single women. It’s also an environment where everything is so informal that there is no pressure to need to always remain on alert to say the right thing at the right time. You can also use this opportunity to practice your humor skills with the many different dance partners you will have.
Now that you are in places where there are literally plenty of women around, how do you approach them?
One approach which I’ve learnt in the past is to simple tell her that you had noticed her from the other side of the room and just wanted to get to know her.
Another approach I’ve also used is to ask her for her female perspective on certain controversial topics such as the environment, dating etc etc.
It’s important to realize that it’s really not just what you say, but how you say it. Your seriousness and calmness will make her comfortable around you and before you know it, a smooth flowing conversation would have been started.
Many men are always very nervous to just walk up to a woman and create a conversation. Just go ahead and make the move. She will be interested in what you say and you will grab her attention.
Never let the fear of rejection keep you from making your first move. If the woman turns out to be rude to you or turns you away, let go without embarrassment and move onto another woman more worth your effort.
You would be far better off anyway to not have to waste time with a woman you would have been turned off by. Persistence does pay.
Beautiful attractive women know it themselves that they have this physical attraction that turns men on. Set yourself apart by not showing that her beauty does not do much for you.
Hide your interest. She will be wondering why you are so different and you have turned the power to your end by her wanting to now get to know you more. You have swapped power positions. She is now attracted to you and not the other way around.
Most importantly, make sure you end the conversation with the end in mind. Getting her contact details or the intention of seeing her again is a must.

Tips to seducing women: Be cool and impressiveSeducing women is not really difficult, but it is definitely an art. First of all you should be elusive and indirect.That means woman should not be able to realize that you are seducing her. If you will push things too hard, you shall not achieve what you wanted.There are many places where the two people can meet for the first time.Make sure you choose a good place when you are looking for a potential partner. Of course you meet women in public places like pubs,bars and nightclubs, and of course these places are a better choice than a store or a bus station. Before you make the first move, or approach her, be sure for yourself that she is the right woman for you. For this you need to observe her for some time so that you can be sure with your choice. Otherwise you may become a victim of embarrassment later.After you have selected place,exchanged eye contacts and smiles comes your first move. Flattery will absolutely help and you have to charm her in some ways. You can impress her by your style and start a conversation with her. Communication is ultimately the most important aspect in seducing women. Like so many other aspects of our lives, effective communication is the key to success. You want to take the time to really get to know her and what she’s looking for. This will benefit you greatly when it comes to pleasing her, so don’t think that getting to know your woman is a pointless, grueling task of learning a bunch of useless information.Patience when attracting your woman is important as well. Being in a hurry will only prove to damage any good you could have done by learning anything at all about your woman. When it comes to attracting a woman, take it slow. We want a man to take his time, not just rush in for the brass ring. A woman wants to know that you aren’t just playing her for sex. And the best way to prove yourself is to take your time.Its well known that women want to feel special. Being romantic makes us feel special. So if you want to seduce your woman you have to be romantic. It proves that you care, that you want to please her and that you know how to treat a woman right. Romance will take you a long way in seducing women. Focus on her actions rather then what she says!If she shrinks away, she is not interested in you or your charms. If she is interested, but may not want to show it too openly, she might just continue having a conversation with you just to check you out. Under no conditions should you push her, because one wrong move and you will lose her completely. If she is moving the way you wanted, then your attempt has been successful and you can then just invite her to your house and proceed further. It is not hard to master the technique of seducing women.Most of the time the initial reaction of every woman is rejection and you have to learn the art to overcome it. Besides increasing a woman’s interest in you, you should put yourself in a position whereby you gain immediate respect. Don’t make mistakes like asking her for her phone number right in the beginning, but find a way to get it from her without asking for it. Dress appropriately and never throw yourself on her.Take care about your hair styling, the perfume that you use and the one-liners that you learn to attract her attention and impress her.

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Body language is the most valuable asset you have when attracting women. They did a survey some time ago about men approaching and 80% of woman said that they would prefer a guy approaching with a smile on his face. You have 80 different muscles in your face so USE them.

Your body language is the most effective weapon you have when interacting with a woman. Women make approximately 30 judgments about you within the first 30 seconds and most of it is portrayed via your body language. Women will listen to your words but if you can learn how to use your body it can work to your advantage. You can create enthusiasm by using your body, you can build anticipation, build attraction, come across as confident, strong, mature and MORE.

Everything matters with body language from your hands to the stance of where your feet are and YES all women notice this. Women can feel your energy and power when you portray good strong body language and you will send chills down their neck.

So how do you use your body when talking to women? Well if I got you to imagine a depressed person, I am sure you would be able to do it. Head down, shoulders shrugged forward, body stiff and closed in, eye contact at the floor.

Now if I told you to imagine yourself as if you had just won a championship how would you be holding your body? Head up, shoulders back, chest out, eyes level, stance.

So how do you approach women? First of all I will suggest what you must not do when talking to women. Don’t fidget, all guys make this mistake and it is not attractive, guys will sway, play with their jewelry, look around the room, hands in pockets, lean in toward women, stand too close, touch woman too early on, hold eye contact for too long.

You need to find the balance for body language and you need to get a woman to believe that you are way too comfortable for the situation, that nothing bothers you about talking to her as it shouldn’t. You should be powerful having your shoulders back and your feet should be shoulder width apart taking up room. When standing still you should always have one leg in front and shoulder length apart and one leg slightly bent. When talking to women always lean back and make eye contact but don’t stare, look at let her know that you are comfortable and she does not intimidate you.

Having your hands in the back of your pockets works and using your arms and hands when talking will stop you from fidgeting, try to always keep your hands just above your waist when interacting with a woman. Never walk straight toward a woman and get right into her face always talk to a woman from the side at the start and then slowly turn in towards her or more so the women will turn into you.

By doing all of these subtle little movements with your body you will come across as strong and powerful and a man, without even having to OPEN your mouth. So be confident with women and remember that confidence is nothing but a state that you put yourself in. You can’t get confidence it is something that you create inside of yourself.

Attracting girls is an essential skill that has to be learned.  If you want to become really good at getting a date with girls, you have to practice your attraction skills.  It’s kind of like some jobs – they want someone who has experience, but you can’t get experience unless you’re hired for the job. 

But, this practice has a built-in solution.  You practice your attraction skills on beautiful women! 

WHAT?!  Practice on the women that I want to attract!  You must be NUTS! 

Nope.  Not at all.  It’s like this.  There are women that are called ‘hired guns’.  They may have regular job duties, like typing, floor sales, wait tables.  But, a part of their duties is to talk to the customers.  The male customers, in particular.  They’re paid to talk to you. 

The point is that you can talk with a beautiful woman and practice your techniques in attracting women with her and, under most circumstances, she won’t reject you.  If she does it’s because you’ve been completely inappropriate, aggressive, vulgar, or some other totally obnoxious behavior.  And, you’ll be kicked out on your keister by whoever she works for.  Practice all you want, but don’t mess with the ‘hired gun’.  They’re protected property.

Hired guns typically work for high end, trendy clothing stores; they’re female bartenders at local bars and night clubs; waitresses in an establishment that tends to cater to men (Hooters), liquor and beer promotions shot girls; the car show spokeswomen.  These women are typically beautiful, friendly, and especially easy to talk with.  They make a good practice partner.

Come early and begin your evening by talking and practicing your flirting and attracting techniques with these women.  Then, when you have warmed up and are in the zone, go out and start talking with other beautiful women that you find interesting. 

This is truly a great way to get in some great practice time with a real live beautiful woman.  Be sure to use this opportunity to your advantage.

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Attracting girls is an essential skill that has to be learned.  If you want to become really good at getting a date with girls, you have to practice your attraction skills.  It’s kind of like some jobs – they want someone who has experience, but you can’t get experience unless you’re hired for the job. 

But, this practice has a built-in solution.  You practice your attraction skills on beautiful women! 

WHAT?!  Practice on the women that I want to attract!  You must be NUTS! 

Nope.  Not at all.  It’s like this.  There are women that are called ‘hired guns’.  They may have regular job duties, like typing, floor sales, wait tables.  But, a part of their duties is to talk to the customers.  The male customers, in particular.  They’re paid to talk to you. 

The point is that you can talk with a beautiful woman and practice your techniques in attracting women with her and, under most circumstances, she won’t reject you.  If she does it’s because you’ve been completely inappropriate, aggressive, vulgar, or some other totally obnoxious behavior.  And, you’ll be kicked out on your keister by whoever she works for.  Practice all you want, but don’t mess with the ‘hired gun’.  They’re protected property.

Hired guns typically work for high end, trendy clothing stores; they’re female bartenders at local bars and night clubs; waitresses in an establishment that tends to cater to men (Hooters), liquor and beer promotions shot girls; the car show spokeswomen.  These women are typically beautiful, friendly, and especially easy to talk with.  They make a good practice partner.

Come early and begin your evening by talking and practicing your flirting and attracting techniques with these women.  Then, when you have warmed up and are in the zone, go out and start talking with other beautiful women that you find interesting. 

This is truly a great way to get in some great practice time with a real live beautiful woman.  Be sure to use this opportunity to your advantage.

Watch FREE hidden camera pickup videos and discover how to approach, meet and get dates with attractive women at the shopping mall, the park, even the street!

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How To Approach Women

by Alex Coulson

Here is my quick and sweet policy to seducing stunning women.

Right so you’re at a bar, you have a cocktail by your side and you notice this totally hot girl standing by herself as she waits for her party friends, you know you only have a seconds before they meet her so you better act quickly what you should start a conversation with her with, how you would walk over there without being too dorky and make it look normal and disinterested where deep down inside you know you want her … so much.

However you don’t walk over there to talk to her for fear of the approach and you get home at 12am and you hit yourself and talk to yourself “dammit what’s wrong with me … why didn’t I talk to her!”.

This is most likely as this is what I used to be like. Well I’m glad I’ve changed for the better and the good news is so can you!

So you fancy to study how to talk to women in bars huh?

Picking up stunning women is a challenge for most men however if you understand some easy steps to approaching, attracting and continuing the conversation with hot girls then picking up girls will be a heck of a lot simple to do. The key to success with picking up hot girls is all in the attitude and theway you act.

Step #1 Clear your head and stop thinking so much

This is probably the most pivotal advice I can give you, stop living in your mind and worrying about what other people think of you. If you’re trying to think “what do I say” just before you approach then chances are you won’t approach as you’re blank minded there trying to imagine something original to to talk about.

Step #2 Stop caring about hot girls rejecting you

This takes plenty of practice and persistence. Stop trying to think about rejection! If you keep worrying about messing things up or running out of things to say, then guess what’s going to happen … That’s right you guessed it you’re going to run out of things to say! If you let your fear own you then you’re not living your own life.

Step #3 Don’t compliment women too early unless it’s sincere

Women will gather that you’re “trying to pick her up” if you throw compliments at her after you just met, they’ll sense that you only want “one thing” and trust me you’re going about it the wrong way. Women don’t want to be complimented by every male unless it’s a sincere compliment!

Step #4 Appear like you have a beautiful partner already

Hot women are attracted to males who already have girlfriends. I know this is sounds strange but the non-neediness of these men builds and attracts good-looking women. So act like you have a girlfriend and you’re just out to have fun, by all means don’t tell her you have a girlfriend as your chances of mounting the wagon will plummet.

Step #5 Don’t let a bad approach dishearten you from more approaching more good-looking women

I approach/walk up to on average 40 groups of attractive women on any given Friday or Saturday night and I get huge success and not all women I approach go well, in fact I’ve met some malicious pieces of work though I didn’t let this phase me and neither should you. I just kept on approaching these attractive women.

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Why are some men naturally successful with women while other men, even intelligent, interesting and good looking men can’t get a date?

It has to do with one thing – attraction. Attraction is like an unspoken language which is communicated instantly when a man and women meet. But here’s the problem: women don’t make a conscious selection on who they become attracted to. It’s like touching a hot stove and feeling pain. You don’t choose to feel pain. It happens as a result of a certain stimulus -

touching a hot stove.

So what’s the stimulus causing attraction? Most guys think it has to do with buying gifts and dinner and giving her compliments. It doesn’t. Unless you know what does work, you better hope to either win the lottery, become famous or befriend a good plastic surgeon.

Pound this into your memory: you can’t buy a woman’s attraction with gifts, dinners and compliments. Ever.

Here’s the good news: If you haven’t been so successful with women lately, it’s not because your some freak of nature, or because women can’t find you attractive. You’ve just simply be following the wrong map. You’ve been operating on ideals and beliefs given to you by your parents, society, religion and even your well meaning friends.

Know this – every man is born with the gift to sexually attract women. It’s part of our survival mechanism. However, through all the layers of social programming… we have buried that gift. Stymied its growth. As a result, we now are clueless when it comes to the art of attraction.

As a dating coach, I’ve seen my fair share of this. The good news is it’s not too hard to bring it back to the surface. You simply need to reacquaint yourself with how attraction actually works. You need a better map.

The first thing you need to know about attraction – keep your power.

Women hate weak men. Yet men always act like wussies around women they wish to date. Kissing up does not equal power.

Rule number one in attraction – don’t give up your power. This means when you ask a woman out, don’t say, “Where would you like to go.” She’ll reply, “Oh, I don’t care… wherever is fine.” And you come back with, “No seriously. Where would you like to go?” Ugh.

Come closer: the one with the most power is the leader. Remember touching a hot stove is the stimulus for pain? Well, when a women becomes the leader… as far as attraction goes… it’s a stimulus for instant turn off. Zap! It’s gone.

Men give up more power with one single dating blunder than any other – Dinner on the first date.

This sends a subtle message to a woman: I don’t have enough power so I must bribe you with dinner in hopes you feel attraction for me.

And worse… by paying for the first date, you have set the tone of your relationship with her… You are now a Provider. Good look with that one.

So how do you change this? Most men who first learn about the real art of attraction do this: They say to a woman… “Let me take you to dinner.” When the check comes, the man tries to reverse the table. He eyes the bill. Then eyes her. She gets the hint. She pays the bill. And zap! The attraction is gone.

Why? Hey, you were the one who asked her to dinner. It’s like going to the video store and renting the movie. When you bring it up to the counter, you’re the one who is expected to pay. When you ask a woman out a date, you’re the one who is expected to pay.

You’re map is messed up. There is nothing that says you have to take a woman to dinner on the first date. It’s actually probably the worst thing you can do, if you want her to feel attracted to you.

If you’re interested in becoming more successful with women… and you’ve been unsuccessful… you must build a better map. And you start with learning how attraction works, and what stimulus you need to use to trigger it in women (hint, it’s not manipulating her with gifts and compliments).

Once you understand this, you will be able to go from one step to another with women. From how to approach them, to where to take them for the crucial first date.

So get to work on your new map… today!

A Taurean woman is a great example of all things sensual — she loves feeling good, would make a very comfortable nook to cuddle and is an extreme romantic. She is a fixed sign meaning, she will believe in what she believes in — period. She has a strong connection with anything and anyone around her and may have a little trouble trying to flexible. But once you get the trust of Taurus woman, her loyalty with you is forever. She basks in happiness and security but she also takes time to ponder on mysteries and has a great appreciation of art. When you find yourself in love with a Taurus woman, then you’re on a one exciting road trip — below are a few tips on how to sexually attract the Taurus woman — and get her seduced to you now!

Be fiercely loyal. Loyalty is something that every Taurean treasures the most — it can get pretty hard to earn their trust but ones you do, it’s for forever. Being faithful is a must to any relationship and it holds a much heavier meaning to a Taurus woman — so stay off infidelity if you want to keep her.

Be downright romantic. Romance is a necessity in a female Taurus’ life and the more you try to be sweet and cuddly with her, the more she’ll fall for you. Although they can get pretty subtle and would prefer to keep things under wraps, a Taurus completely appreciates you and rest assured, all her compliments are genuine.

Focus on her neck. The Taurus are very much noted to how they’re pretty sensitive with their necks — that’s why it’s a great spot to focus on when you’re making love. Caress it, massage it, kiss it — whatever the means, the Taurus woman would definitely find this very sexual and pleasurable. So be generous and start a make-out session.

Be very sensual. Sensuality happens when you combine confidence and creativity — in lovemaking of course. A Taurus is a natural sensual lover and you will absolutely marvel at how she makes you feel good whether it’s juts a stare or a fleeting caress. Let her know you feel good — it will fire her up to keep going — whatever it is she’s doing.

Be spontaneous. Give in to impulses once in a while — Taurus people love it when they know you’re being yourself and would have a great time. They want to see you in your normal self, having fun with them and would take time to pause and get romantic. Be up for anything, be open to change and the Taurus will be there for you all the way.

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If you really want to get in good with a woman, if you want to be able to create the kind of intense attraction that will make her knees buckle, then you cannot rely on the old standard tricks and routines that so many guys use in order to try and make her fall for your charm. You have to know how to ignite her passion, to create a spark of attraction that burns deep within her, and that is NOT going to happen with the usual standard fare.

You have to instead do what the other guys WON’T do and that’s to really get inside what it is that attracts a woman. Most guys are pretty far off when they try to figure out what a woman wants and as a result, they don’t end up creating the kind of impression that will really blow a woman away and make her quake in the knees.

How can you attract a woman and make her knees begin to buckle?

Here are a few tips on how to attract women and not go about it in the usual way:

1. You will make a much better impression on a woman by disregarding any of the classic lines that men use to try and pick up women.

If you try and hit her with one of those classic lines that she has heard more times than she cares to, the impression that you make on her is not going to be in sync with what you really want her to feel. See, when a woman is used to hearing certain lines and approaches that men use to try and pick her up, she’s going to be quick to dismiss you as just another run of the mill guy, out looking to score one for the night. That’s not at all what you want her to think about you.

2. You have to know that a woman wants to be treated to a good time when she is out with a guy.

Sounds pretty straight forward, but a lot of guys are doomed from the start because the date they choose is a total dud. Maybe they go with the dinner and a movie routine or maybe it’s something else just as classic and benign. If you really want to make her knees buckle, then you have to use a more unorthodox approach. Take her out some place where she would never guess and let her see that you are capable of just kicking back with her and letting yourself have a good time.

3. You have to make sure that YOU don’t put yourself in the friend zone with her.

Most guys will end up blaming the woman, when in reality, they put themselves in the friend zone. How did they do this? If you are not willing to cross the line of friendship and at least make your move at some point in time, you are going to miss out on your opportunity. Obviously, you don’t want to be seen as too aggressive, but the other end of the spectrum is not the answer either. Point being, you have to be able to make a move on her, you cannot be the kind of guy that goes home without a kiss.

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Follow these ten commandments in your dating game and you’ll soon be approaching, attracting, seducing and winning over ANY woman you desire…1 – Thou Shall Not Use Pickup LinesNone of them are any good. I don’t care how smooth you are at pulling them off, because you never know if some other guy has used them and you’ll only appear cheesy. Instead try using an honest, specific pick up line based on what’s going on around you.2 – Thou Shall Flirt Like There’s No TomorrowFlirting is an art in itself. It takes lot’s of practice and will give your confidence a much needed boost. Flirting with a woman will make it easier for you to take the pressure off simply because it will feel more natural, not just something you only do when trying to attract women.3 – Thou Shall NEVER Worry About What Women Are ThinkingEverybody is different. Never walk up to a woman nervously wondering if your outfit, hair, career choice, or anything else might disgust her. Women want a man that oozes confidence, and when they see you have it, they will be yours for the taking!4 – Thou Shall Make An effort To Plan A Date Other Than Dinner And A MovieWomen love originality. Most men always pick dinner and a movie, which don’t get me wrong is fun to do, but not very creative. Prove to her that you are not like every other man by thinking of something different to do on a date. Swimming with dolphins or making pottery together will have them wanting more of you.5 – Thou Shall Not Discuss Taboo TopicsDon’t start talking about religion, past girlfriends or politics. Impress the woman by asking lot’s of questions, because women really do love to talk! Try to stay on positive subjects and very rarely mention anything negative.6 – Thou Shall Make An Effort To Listen At All TimesThe one thing women look for in their own friends is someone who is a good listener. Women always like to talk and complain and whinge about what’s going on in their lives, so they need very good listeners! Never start daydreaming on your date because women will know you’re not listening to them.Listening to a woman allows you to pick up hints about what she might like and what she doesn’t like. Keep notes on these things in your head so you can surprise her in the future!7 – Thou Shall Not Be Too Eager On A DateTake things slow or you might not get any bedroom action later in the evening! Never stare at a woman’s chest and drool over her, because it will turn a woman right off you and cause her to chalk you up to almost every man she’s ever dated. If you’re not interested in her, just pretend that you are. Things will go more smoothly for you and it may lead to a sexual encounter.8 – Thou Shall Focus On The Little Things That Make A Woman HappyIf you don’t have plenty of money, don’t worry! Even if you are loaded, don’t try and impress a woman with your wallet. Women want to know that somewhere inside you is that little boy who used to bring dandelions in from the garden for his mom. Try hand made cards, sweet messages or candy bars in the woman’s bag with a little love note every now and again, because little gestures like that will score you big points!9 – Thou Shall Not Lose Sight Of What You Want In A WomanIt’s important to find a woman who is interested in you as a person, but it’s equally important to not settle for a woman who doesn’t make you happy. Consider every detail, from brains to beauty, and then look for a woman who matches the qualities you’re after. Remember that if you also set your standards too high, you’ll end up being a shallow Hal.10 – Thou Shall Look For Love In All PlacesFrom this moment on, every single place you visit will be your singles scene. Every time you go to the shop, fill your car up with petrol, each day you go to work, you are now on the prowl for a woman. Finding love is really the easy part, keeping it is where you’re going to be putting the most effort in!So there are the 10 commandments to win over a woman. We go into more detail about each one, and hand out some KILLER TACTICS ON HOW TO APPROACH, ATTRACT AND SEDUCE WOMEN on our site below.